Naturally, as they said at the start of the video, this video was a representation of the leash concept's extreme conclusion. I would like to examine the concept of putting a child, or even a dog, on a leash. First of all, using a least is a form of positive punishment. It adds the leash to help get rid of the negative behavior: running away. Yes, I understand that this is not always the case. Sometimes, leashes are merely used as safety measures to keep dogs and children close by.
Imagine that your two-year-old kid loves running away from you in the middle of the grocery store. As a parent, you have a few options. For example, you can either take the kid outside when he runs away (negative punishment) or you can put a leash on the kid to keep him from running too far (positive punishment and safety). Recently, I have noticed that many parents are opting for the leash method, especially for toddlers and energetic children. Interestingly enough, a lot of parents actually think that putting their kids on leashes isn't a form of punishment at all. I suppose it depends on the situation. Even so, leashes have gotten a bad rap recently because some parents, like the "mom" in the video, treat their children like actual animals.
Here are some questions to consider: What would you have done if you saw the child in the video tied to the post? As a future parent, will you even consider using this form of positive punishment on your children? Do you think it actually works?
This is interesting. I had a little bracelet-leash thing when I was a toddler. Apparently I greatly enjoyed roaming around by myself in crowded places, and this was a way that my mom could make sure I didn't get lost. However, it was nothing like this- I wasn't tied to a pole or talked to like a dog, thank God. It wasn't used as a punishment, just as a safety measure. However, I don't think using a waist-leash on an older kid is a good form of positive punihsment- that jut doesn't seem right.
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